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New Jersey Independent School Admissions – Getting Started

New Jersey Independent School Admissions—Getting Started

If you’re considering independent schools in New Jersey, here are a few things to know.

The general timeline for Independent Schools In New Jersey


Late Winter/Early Spring
– This is the best time to do research and begin to understand what you’re looking for in a school. Some independent schools have Spring tours, which can give you a good sense of the school feel, curriculum, and student makeup. It is also a great time to begin test prep for admissions testing. If your child is in second grade or higher, they may need to take a standardized test as part of their application.

Summer/Early Fall – There may be a preliminary application to submit before you can attend a formal school tour or begin the interview process. This is a good time for families to begin preparing for interviews and writing essays.

Late Fall/Winter – This is the busiest time for families! Student and parent interviews, finalizing writing, and testing fill this time. Application deadlines and decision notifications can vary in New Jersey based on the independent schools you are applying to. Generally, application deadlines are in the month of December or early January, with decisions going out in the month of February. 

Public, Magnet, and School Choice Program Timelines


If you are also considering registering for the public school in your town, or hoping to register for an out-of-town public or magnet school, new student registration dates vary widely based on the town or the program. Interdistrict public school choice programs have had a November deadline in the past, whereas some public schools open in December, and others in January. Be sure to note all of the important dates for the schools you are considering.

Notable differences in New York and New Jersey Admissions 


When considering preschool in New York City, families often look closely at a program’s exmissions support and school list. Many NYC preschools publish recent placement lists as part of their admissions materials and have high-touch exmissions support. 

In New Jersey, while some preschools do share kindergarten placement outcomes, it is generally less common for nursery schools to publicly post detailed exmissions lists. It is more typical for independent Preschool-8th or K-8th grade schools to share exmissions data, and those lists often include a mix of public, private, independent, and magnet school placements.

Additionally, while it is common in New York City for admissions directors from competitive schools to visit preschools as part of the admissions process, this practice is less frequent in New Jersey. With families and schools often more geographically widespread, the preschool visit or kindergarten playdate may be one of the limited opportunities for an admissions team member to observe and meet your child in an academic setting.

Another important note when considering New Jersey schools is that the age requirements differ for grades. The New Jersey public schools generally use an October 1st cutoff date, which means, for example, that a child has to be 5 by October 1st of that school year to be eligible for Kindergarten. Although some private schools follow the October 1st date, others have cutoff dates in September or over the summer months.

What is the applicaton process for independent school admissions in New Jersey?

With these few differences, it’s safe to say the overall structure of the application process remains the same: tours, interviews, student visits, and parent events are similar across the region.

Each independent school has a slightly different application process. Here are common elements of a full application:

  • Parent Interviews
  • Student Screenings or Student Interviews
  • Parent Essays
  • Student Essays (dependent on age, these can start as early as mid-Elementary school)
  • Teacher Recommendation(s)
  • Principal/Director Recommendation
  • Student Transcripts or Reports
  • Supplemental items such as personal recommendations, videos, student work, or ISAAGNY school reports may be required as well 

Events also play an important role in the admissions process.


New Jersey families are often required to participate in a school tour. This is a wonderful opportunity to get to know the school better, see students in action, and ask questions.

But, parent tours aren’t the only time you will have the opportunity to see the school and get to know the school community. Schools plan events to help families make an informed decision about whether the school feels like the right place for your child. As a parent, you’ll want to anticipate spending multiple hours each week attending these important gatherings throughout the application process, including: 

  • Open Houses
  • Coffees 
  • Meet and Greets
  • Invitations to already planned school events that involve current and prospective families 

One tip we share with families: consider creating a school-specific shared calendar to track and manage all your upcoming events so nothing gets lost in the shuffle.

Although the process can feel overwhelming at times, it is designed with intention: you gain insight into the school’s mission, values, and community, while giving schools the opportunity to truly get to know your child and family.

Choosing an independent school that fits your child’s unique needs can feel daunting. There are a lot of new “to-dos,” but the best experiences start with some honest reflection. 

Here’s a quick checklist with five questions we always ask families to consider when identifying the right school to partner with for your student. 

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