Camp – The Perfect Setting for Learning Life Skills

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Camp- The Perfect Setting For Learning Life Skills

Summer camp is more than just a break from school; it’s a unique opportunity for children to develop essential life skills in a fun and supportive environment. At camp, kids can explore new interests, make lasting friendships, and face challenges that help them grow. Parents can maximize the learning potential of camp for their children by focusing on three key lessons:

1. When Kids Can Do, They Do – Empowering Independence

One of the most valuable aspects of camp is the chance for children to practice independence. When kids are given the opportunity to do things on their own, they often rise to the occasion. However, there can be moments when things go wrong. If you receive feedback from camp that your child is struggling, it might be because they don’t know what to do in that particular situation.

Tip for Parents: Understand the situation clearly and use it as a teaching moment. For instance, if your child didn’t know how to handle a conflict with a peer, discuss strategies and role-play scenarios to build their conflict-resolution skills. This proactive approach helps your child feel more equipped to handle similar situations in the future.

2. Embrace Challenges as Learning Opportunities

Camp life, like regular life, has its ups and downs. Your child might get sick, have a minor injury, or face social challenges. It’s important to normalize these setbacks and emphasize that they are a natural part of the camp experience.

Tip for Parents: Set realistic expectations by explaining to your child that camp will have both happy and difficult moments. Encourage them to view challenges as opportunities to learn and grow. Reinforce the idea that they are surrounded by trusted adults who can help them navigate these situations. By allowing your child to face and overcome challenges, you help them build resilience and problem-solving skills.

3. Develop Your Own Skills as a Parent

Having your child away at camp also presents an opportunity for you to grow as a parent. You might need to adjust to a less hands-on role and learn to trust other adults to care for your child. This shift can be challenging but also rewarding.

Tip for Parents: Use this time to build your skills in parenting from afar. Stay connected through letters or occasional phone calls, but resist the urge to micromanage. Focus on being a sturdy leader, as Dr. Becky Kennedy advocates, showing your child that you trust them and their ability to handle camp life. This not only strengthens your child’s confidence but also helps you grow in your role as a parent.


Camp is a wonderful setting for children to learn and live well. By empowering your child to be independent, normalizing challenges, and developing your own parenting skills, you can ensure that both you and your child make the most of the camp experience. Embrace this opportunity for growth, and watch your child thrive both at camp and beyond.

If you have a question about camp and how to support your child, book an exploratory call here! 

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