Take Control of Your High School Admissions Journey
Starting the high school admissions process can feel overwhelming—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. This guide will help you understand what to do now so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.
What you’ll gain:
- A clear understanding of what steps to take this spring
- Insight into how to best support your child through the process
- A proactive plan so you’re not relying solely on your school’s timeline
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Becky Reback
Director of Assessment & School Placement Advisor
Meet Your High School Support Expert
Becky Reback helps students and parents stay organized, confident, and clear at each step of the high school application process.
Becky is an experienced educator with over 20 years of supporting middle and high school students through academics and social-emotional growth. Becky builds strong relationships with students and families while guiding them through key milestones during the high school admissions process for private, public, charter and boarding school placements.
Frequently asked questions about the private high school application process
How early is too early to start thinking about private high school admissions?
Many families begin thinking about the process as early as middle school, especially if they are considering selective schools. The timeline often depends on your child’s needs, learning style, and your family’s goals.
This guide begins in the spring before the application season because we believe starting early—at a manageable pace—helps families feel more organized, less stressed, and better prepared when deadlines arrive.
Are grades and test scores the most important part of the application?
Grades and testing certainly matter, and they’re often the most visible parts of the process. However, private schools take a much more holistic approach.
Admissions teams are looking at the full picture—academic readiness, personal qualities, interests, recommendations, and how your child will contribute to the school community. A strong application reflects a well-rounded student and a thoughtful family, not just strong numbers.
As a parent, how can I best support my child through the admissions process?
Most parents want their child to grow into a confident, independent learner who can advocate for themselves. The admissions process is actually a great opportunity to begin building those skills.
The key is balance: provide structure, reminders, and support—but allow your child to take ownership where appropriate. Encourage reflection, help them stay organized, and be a steady guide without taking over the process.
In addition, take good care of yourself during this process. Manage your tasks, your messaging and your time. Be aware of your emotions and take care of them. Your sturdiness during this process cannot be underestimated.
What should we be doing right now to prepare?
Spring and summer are ideal times to get ahead. This might include researching schools, visiting campuses, understanding testing requirements, and beginning to think about your child’s story and strengths.
Having a clear plan early on can make the fall feel much more manageable—and far less overwhelming.
How do we know which schools are the right fit for our child?
The “right” school is not just about prestige—it’s about fit. Consider your child’s learning style, personality, interests, and where they will feel both supported and challenged.
A thoughtful list usually includes a range of options where your child can thrive academically, socially, and emotionally.
Is it okay to rely on our current school to guide us through the process?
School guidance can be helpful, but it’s often generalized and may not be tailored to your child or your family’s specific goals.
Taking a proactive approach—asking questions, doing your own research, and using resources like this guide—can make a significant difference in both outcomes and overall experience.
